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2020 - The Year of Uncertainty

2020 is a year many of us remember for its uncertainty, isolation, and unexpected changes — but it's also the year Ben and Steffi met. With so much closed, they found each other online in an unlikely place: a Discord server. After a few conversations, Steffi convinced Ben to join her for a game of 'Don't Starve Together', and that first night turned into many more. From late-night builds to shared laughs across screens, what started as two people passing the time grew into this life together that we’re excited to celebrate with you all!

Our Story

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Pauline and Steffi have been best friends since childhood—growing up together through tough moments, big changes, and countless celebrations. Pauline has been a steady confidante and friend through years of growth and heartache, and she knows Steffi as well as anyone outside of Ben. Steffi couldn’t imagine anyone else standing by her side on the wedding day.

Pauline Echem

John Logan

Theone Rizane

Christopher Bass

Angelique Graven

Chris Gabehart

Hailey Raphael

Lee Austin

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What to Wear

We’re aiming for relaxed-formal: think sundress or midi dress, dressy jumpsuit, or dress pants and button up rather than jeans and sneakers. We’ll be celebrating both outdoors and indoors—so smart layers for fall/winter will be necessary. Please avoid wearing white or ivory so Steffi can shine on her day.

Dress Code

We’re aiming for relaxed-formal: think sundress or midi dress, dressy jumpsuit, or dress pants and button up rather than jeans and sneakers. We’ll be celebrating both outdoors and indoors—so smart layers for fall/winter will be necessary. Please avoid wearing white or ivory so Steffi can shine on her day.

What to Know

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Things to Do

Our Registry

We’re so happy you’re planning to celebrate with us! Your presence is the greatest gift, and there’s absolutely no expectation to bring anything. If you’d like to contribute, we’re saving for a home down payment and a dream honeymoon—donations toward either are welcome. Links for Zelle and Venmo are below, and a box will be available at the ceremony for cash or anonymous gifts. Thank you for your love and support.

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